loss for words.

Upon reaching the site today, sat down at one side with one of my colleague and his handphone received a sms. here it goes,

G to D: hey you can receive sms from singapore?
D to G: yah lah, my wife to be sms me.
G to D: I got autoroam too, but my handphone had been silent since the first day I arrived here except TOTO and 4D messages.
D to G: You got no friends lah, no gf and nobdy like you lah.
G to D: then i say something sacarstic to him just for fun. saying i got lots of friends etc then he said this sentence.
D to G: Even if all my friends, my family abandon me, i know i still got my wife with me ALWAYS.
G to D: *quiet for a moment*
change topics.

This sentence make me think for the whole morning.
I was wondering, friends got their own life too.
Family will leave you earlier.
At the end of the day, who is there for me?

Have you guys(those haven't start a family) ever think about this question?
It's quite scary but this is reality.

Thoughts again.

Scenerio A

Guy A love Girl A.
Girl A love Guy A too.
But in the end, Girl A marry Guy B.

Scenerio B

Guy A love Girl A.
Girl A love Guy A too.
In the end, Guy A and Girl A get married.

I firmly believe that scenerio A is mostly happening around the world, it's quite hard for both loves one getting together in the end. In most marriage, both parties are not their most loved one in their life. Many things play important roles, eg time, opportunities etc.

If you are together with your loved, please hold on to them no matter what. Unless the other party don't love you, you will be able to feel it.

Follow your heart; Follow your mind. Choose your own route to your own happiness.
You own your life, you shall make things happen in your way.
Lastly, you only got a chance, you live once only.
Afterwhich, it's death. Your body down 12 feets the ground, you might be just a soul wandering around who knows? Grab every little bit of opportunity.
Risk it.